The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide by Melissa Stanton

Author:Melissa Stanton
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Basic Books
Published: 2011-01-14T00:00:00+00:00

CHILDPROOFING YOUR LOVE LIFE

Okay. We know what the problem is. But how do we solve it? If sex is so important, but we aren’t always geared up for it, how do we bridge that gap?

Communicate: This involves talking and paying attention, and therefore some men may bristle at having to discuss their feelings: too bad. You can explain that although you want to want to have sex, you’re exhausted by caring for kids all day and, frankly, you sometimes feel unappreciated. He can then explain that he’s exhausted by working all day and sometimes feels unappreciated but, hey, he still wants to have sex. The point is, talking is better than not talking. And although talking often isn’t a turn-on for men, it can be a big turn-on for women, so much so that such verbal intimacy can lead to physical intimacy.

Indecent Proposals

Among the distressing side effects of the information age is that men (and yes, women) can now be unfaithful from the comfort of their home. Porn, sex chat rooms, and even local liaisons are all available via the Internet. A husband wanting to play out an embarrassing fantasy, or one frustrated by his wife’s child-induced exhaustion and sexual indifference, can get his kicks (and ready attention and gratification) by surfing the web. Similarly, a lonely Stay-at-Home mom desperate to feel attractive and alive has more options than to seduce the general contractor who’s renovating her kitchen.

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